Post Scene Review: Rope Bondage Masochism

Sometimes, it’s fun to use rope to play with a masochist’s pain kink. And this post describes exactly how you can do it.

Disclaimer; this post depicts masochistic bondage sex, with rope tied more tightly than I’d typically recommend for most scenes. While it’s relatively fun and safe to do with legs tied doubled closed, I don’t recommend it for any other area of the body. Always negotiate how you’ll play with your partner before trying anything like this. 

I’d been craving a bondage scene for awhile. We’d played recently, but it had been other kinds of play, and while that had been amazing, it had been awhile since we actually did rope. 

I bound my pet’s wrists first, tied above her head, and eased myself down her body, stroking her as I went. The way she arched her back and sighed was absolutely lovely. 

Then I grabbed another hank of rope, shook it out, and seized her ankle, tying the first cuff of the futomomo quickly and firmly. Pushing the ankle up abruptly against her thigh, I wrapped one arm around her leg to hold her in place and began to slowly, tightly and with great pressure, squeeze the rope in slow spirals up her leg. The mood was dark, intense, savage. I was using some dirty talk… I can’t remember the exact phrases, but it was along very S&M lines, “That’s right, I’m going to fucking torture you with this rope, and it’s going to hurt so fucking much…” 

With the tight, clamping sensation and the dirty talk, a long, slow, throaty groan came from my pet’s throat, and her eye lashes began to flutter closed.

As I reached her knee at the top of the spiral, I released one arm from her leg, and began tightening the rope down as I tied down the inside of the leg again. The groans grew louder as I linked each spiral to the next, tight, so tight. By the time the tie was done my pet was breathing heavily and her eyes had rolled up into her head. 

Masochists are so interesting to play with that way; their reactions to very tight pressure can be such an interesting thing! 

And then I did the next leg, exactly the same way. By the time it was done my pet was deep in her rope space. 

So I spent some time playing with the tightly squeezed flesh between the rope coils, stroking, digging my fingers in, adding to all the sensations already going on down there, accompanied with more groans and sounds of delightful, pleasurable enjoyment. 

Rather delightfully, my pet is the kind of woman who becomes tremendously turned on by pain and helplessness, and all of this became delightful foreplay for her. It was fairly evident by how wet she’d become just how powerful the effect of all that very tight rope had been – as if the noises she’d been making weren’t enough!

I teased her some more, stroking her body, adding pleasure sensations along with the ongoing pressure from her tightly bound legs, making her writhe and arch…

And then, when I finally took her, I lowered my weight down between her bound legs, forcing them apart even further, and adding yet another level of tight pressure and pain into her legs. 

She exploded within seconds, screaming her pleasure. 

I kept playing with her, thrusting, grinding my hips and weight down into the rope… over and over she came for me. After several minutes had passed and she’d adapted to the new sensations, I took it another level further, using the rope as grips, and lifting her hips and legs off the bed while I continued to use her.

The added pressure of the partial suspension from my hands drove her to another level of intensity, and her voice got even louder – I was glad my flatmates weren’t home. I was only able to maintain this intensity for a few minutes – thrusting while holding someone up in the air requires quite an ongoing exertion – but dear god it was intense.

 I could feel ragged growls coming from my own throat as I brutally used her, snapping my hips forwards, enjoying the sensation of my hands clenched around the rope and her body reacting helplessly around mine. 

The leg ties were serving very well as handles, and my pet had been reduced to unintelligible moaning, mind broken, overwhelmed with all the helplessness, sensation and intensity. I was getting a bit tired after a few minutes, so lowered her back to the bed, roughly shoved one leg to the side, turning her onto her side, and spooned her from behind, playing with her breasts with my hands while continuing to roughly use her from that sideways position.

With her legs bound like this it was actually a little bit harder to angle things right, but damn it still worked, and I knew I was feeding her fetish of being roughly used while bound, helpless and mindless. And in this position, I was able to conserve a bit of energy… 

Another twenty minutes later, we were done. My pet was nearly unconscious, and while reacting to the rope sliding loose, there were absolutely no coherent words. Just panting, the odd moan, and then passing out as I covered her in a blanket. 

Her first words when she woke up later and I gave her some water were “Holy fuck, that was hot”. 

What I Learned: 

• Well, I’d actually forgotten just how well my pet reacted to super tight, hard rope bondage. So that was a handy reminder. 
• I really, really enjoyed using the leg ties as handles as I added to her helplessness by picking her hips off the bed and continuing to fuck her. I felt very physically in control as I did that, so that was super hot. 

What Would I Do Differently Next Time?

•  I think I’d probably enjoy the foreplay a bit more next time, and I might introduce some other S&M elements like a flogger as well – I suspect my pet would greatly enjoy having her breasts flogged while she’s bound up like that. I’ll need to negotiate that first, but yeah. That sounds fun.