A VERY Naughty Crotch Tie. : Rope Connections

This is a variation on the groin tie, which is sort of part crotch tie, part hip harness. It’s simple to create, the act of tying it can often turn a woman on as she feels the pressure of the rope doing… things… and it creates a lot of access for sex and naughty play.

I’ve been having a lot of fun with it lately, and I thought I’d note it down and share it with y’all. I HIGHLY recommend using rope you’re very happy to wash. I tend to use nylon for this, but am likely to experiment in future with bamboo rope.

Okay, so the base of this tie is almost exactly like my previous crotch rope tutorial. However, there are some significant differences.

We start with the same reverse tension loop around the waist.

We lock it off, using the exact same method as in the previous tutorial. For the extra naughty version of the tie, you want to be certain when you bring the rope down that it’s going between the labia, ideally on either side of the clit hood. That’s not shown here, because that’s not the relationship I have with this model.

As with the previous crotch rope tie, you want to bring the rope under the groin, and back up the other side, following the line between your person’s cheeks, and then bring the rope under the waist band.

This is where the changes come in. Now, we’re going to split the tails, and wrap them around the stem, effectively locking off the tension. Each tail is going to exit the stem going a different direction.

We start wrapping our tails around the person’s hips towards the front, following the direction the rope is already going in. We then have our person turn around, just to make our lives easier.

I highly recommend slowing down for this next part. Take your time, and give your person a naughty grin.

Because now, you’re going to run the rope through the existing stem on the front, and start slowly pulling the rope apart. Which will, in turn, spread apart their labia for your naughty gaze. You may wish to comment on that for extra enjoyment.

I highly recommend taking the time to let your person feel each bit of vibration from the rope, as well. It’s part of the fun of this tie.

And then we basically bring the rope to the back again, and back to the front, a couple more times.

Just a tip. When you’re tying over someone’s naked rear end, the rope has a tendency to cluster in the crack, and then you may find it finicky to reach in there and wrap rope around your little stem to create diamonds. The least annoying way I’ve found to get around this is to place your finger higher up behind the rope above the cheeks, then slide your finger down the rope. This means less “digging around” below, which may not feel as sexy.

Having at least one “underbutt” strand can be fun for emphasizing those cheeks some more.

And the front will end up looking roughly like this.

I tend to finish the tie by taking my loose strands, doing a closed hitch of some kind, and then just threading the tails up around the existing framework. Sometimes if I do enough threading, I won’t worry as much about the closed hitch; I’ll just rely on friction.

Benefits of Using This Tie

This is a very sexually “exposing” tie. So for women that really enjoy that kind of thing, the simple act of tying this one can really turn them on. And if you really enjoy that kind of thing, then tying it can really turn YOU on. It’s foreplay in the style of tying.
Many people like the tight, bondage feel of the rope wrapping back and forth around the hips like that.
All of that rope gives you plenty handholds for gripping onto to really emphasize your thrusts.
If you’ve used the rope to separate the labia, you’ve likely also created a lot more exposure for the clitoris. There’s a lot of fun to be had with that.
This particular crotch rope tie very deliberately also creates access for sex, from both sides. The rope is pulled away from the areas you may like to penetrate. You’re still going to need to wash it later, but yes… for bedroom purposes, I’ve found this to be a very, very fun tie.

I’m still tinkering with this tie a bit, and may introduced some upgrades and variation as I go. When that happens, I’ll update this post.

Since I don’t do sexual ties on guys, if anyone tests this out on someone with a penis and gets interesting results, I’d love for you to add it in the comments! Let’s all learn together.

Happy tying, my friends 🙂

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