Doggy Style Tie for Bondage : Rope Connections

Doggy style is a great position – and sometimes you can make it even better by adding rope. That’s where the doggy style tie comes in.

When you have a partner with a fantastic ass, it’s great to be able to enjoy that properly. Adding rope and reinforcing the Doggy style position has been something I’ve been thoroughly enjoying recently. And it’s simple to do!

Creating The Doggy Style Tie

Step 1: Have your person assume the doggy style position, or a close approximation thereof.

Step 2: In order to reinforce this position and add an element of bondage to it, we’re going to wrap a reverse tension single column tie between the thighs and lower back, compressing them together a little. It’s simpler than it sounds.

tying someone into a doggy style position — Taking the middle of your rope, pull the working end through the bight.

Adding a little tension by pulling a little on the working end. You want it to be snug, not tight. This is a great opportunity to make sure your person is exactly in the position you want them to be in.

Step 3: We reinforce this band by wrapping back around again, giving us a nice, wide, evenly tensioned band. We want all the wraps to be roughly the same tightness.

Step 4: When we have our person and the band compressed into roughly the shape that we want them to be, and we’re happy with the tightness, we lock off. I like to use a closed hitch to do this.

creating a closed hitch for a bondage tie — Make a loop

And tighten it on itself. We’ve made it so the working end travels this way for a reason.

Step 5: Now that you’ve made your band, now you have to stop it from sliding off your person’s ass. This requires making a cinch, which then basically turns this whole thing into a double column tie.

Bring the rope between thighs and torso, crossing to the other side.

Run it under the band. Be careful with your tension; you don’t need this to be tight. Just a little tension, enough to make it snug. Some experimentation may be required to ensure your person is comfortable.

Step 6: Now we just have to tie off and fix it into place, and the doggy style tie is done.

I’ve basically wrapped the working end around the band a couple of times (because nylon is slippery, so adding more friction) and then finished off with a closed hitch.

Ta da! One complete doggy style tie. Now your person is bound into position, and you and they can thoroughly enjoy that.

Does Everybody Enjoy This Tie?

Nope, not everybody. Some people fucking love it, and some people may find that they feel self conscious, or won’t like the lessened ability to move.

My partner and I adore it, but that’s just us. As with any bondage tie, you basically have to test it out to see if it works for you and your partner.

It is very simple to do, however, and I really like that. It also provides not just bondage and restriction, but a nice band to use for extra leverage while you take your partner for a long and vigorous ride.

My partner really likes that feeling of being bound in place, like a toy for my pleasure, and I like having some nice handles to grip while I pull her into me. Depending on how tight the cinch is, you can pull from the sides or the top.

Interestingly, it seems to add something to the actual sensations, as well… maybe it’s the extra tension in my partner’s body, or the position, but it just hits right, for both of us. You know what I mean. Sometimes the position is juuuust right for a bit of extra something.

And there we have it! Simple, fun, effective. I’ve used nylon rope in this tutorial because when I’m doing rope ties that are likely to get spattered with… stuff… it’s nice to use an easily washable rope.

Do NOT forget to wash your rope. We don’t want smelly rope. Ew.

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