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How K Went From Zero To Hero With Rope Bondage

There’s a starting point in the journey of everyone who wants to learn rope bondage.

And that starting point can be all kinds of things, from seeing someone tied up in a movie and getting an unexpected thrill, to taking an interest in climbing and working with rope and suddenly wanting to do other things with it.

All too often though, that starting point comes about when our ever so lovely partners suddenly turn to us with little to no warning and say “I want to be tied up”.

Gulp.

internal screaming “What? Why? How do I do that?”

It’s happened to so many of us!

Today I’m sharing the story of one of my readers who got landed with that exact same challenge, and who took it on like a freaking champion. I’ve had the privilege to ask him a few questions and get more of his story, so I could share it with other people who are learning.

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Forced Orgasms: fantasy and implementation.

Forced orgasms are something I’ve been planning to get into for a while, but only recently did it become well within my abilities to pull off – combined with a little rope bondage, of course.

This post dives deep into the fantasy of that particular kind of play, why people find it hot, and shares a few practical tips on how you can achieve it, should you and your partner be into that sort of thing (Turns out quite a number of people really really are).

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The Ultimate Orgasm Machine

Orgasms are a fun thing to add into your rope bondage scenes – but with some people, it can be difficult to reliably pull them off.

This post is literally showing off the toy I recently got which changed all that – the toy that gave me the power to give an orgasm with a click of a button. It is literally the most effective tool I’ve used (and I’ve experimented with a few) so I’ve decided to actually go to the trouble to write a review for this one.

And yes, I AM smug as hell about it all.

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Rope Lingerie Ties

Lately I’ve been thinking more about a particular class of rope bondage that I used to think of as “decorative,” but more recently have decided is much, much sexier than that.

So now I’m thinking about and discussing the uses of “Lingerie rope bondage” and I’m going to share a few thoughts, and a couple of my favorite ties from that particular category.

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Managing A Sexy Rope Bondage Life When You Have Kids

There are sometimes challenges in doing rope bondage that have nothing to do with the participants, and everything to do with the environment that you’re playing in.

This post is actually in response to an email from one of my readers not so long ago; she wanted some ideas about how to incorporate a sexy rope bondage time when you have kids and an active family life.

And I thought, well yes, I can see how that would present some challenges… so let’s have a bit of a look at that. After checking in with some kinky parents I know and asking a few more questions online, I’ve come up with a few hopefully helpful ideas.

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Rope Bondage As Therapy

Rope bondage as therapy… doesn’t seem like a normal approach, right?

Earlier in the days of this blog, I advocated very strongly that people shouldn’t do rope bondage play when they have a lot of stress going on, because it can lead to some very unfortunate consequences.

I still stand by that… but I’m going to add some qualifiers, because I’ve come across some interesting and potentially useful effects of rope bondage as therapy.  Continue reading Rope Bondage As Therapy