Healthy Kinky Relationships Archives : Page 2 of 2 : Rope Connections

Posted on March 11, 2020September 24, 2020 by Pete Riggs — Leave a comment

Pet Play: A Fun New Sexy Kink

Pet play is a kink I’ve been learning about due to forming a connection with someone who’s quite into it and who identifies as a “pet”. It’s an interesting thing, tying up a cat-girl…

So this has become a great opportunity to learn something new, and to make sense of it by writing it up and sharing it with my readers – including how some rope bondage can combine rather well with pet play.

Posted on February 6, 2020February 6, 2020 by Pete Riggs — 2 Comments

Kinky Relationship Foundation: Respect

I recently got an email from a really worried individual who was trying to get their head around power exchange in kinky relationships, the risks associated with it, and what might happen if people got into one, found it wasn’t for them, and then found their wishes or attempts at communicating or re-negotiating were completely ignored.

This individual was super worried about it, and was looking for some kind of advice and reassurance about what was okay and what wasn’t, and whether people respect each other as people, even in power exchange.

My overall impression was that they were looking for reassurance that respect could exist even when one person was handed lots of power, and the other entered into a submissive role.

The short answer is: yes, it absolutely can. That should be the goal.

The long answer is below.

Posted on January 5, 2020April 7, 2020 by Pete Riggs — 6 Comments

A New Year, A New Direction

Rope Bondage doesn’t happen in a vacuum.

I first got into rope bondage because my partner was into it, and I was determined to be able to do it. It was a connection that was important to me, and I was super keen to pick up that skill, because it would benefit that connection.

Kind of a relationship skill, when you think about it.

Over the last year, I’ve started thinking a lot harder about maintaining healthy kinky connections and relationships. Because rope bondage is one very useful skill that can be used to add to a connection or relationship, or just to enjoy on it’s own, but there are a lot of other factors which are important and useful to look at for maintaining a healthy connection.