The radial nerve in the arms is one of the most frequently discussed areas for potential injury in rope bondage. This post digs into that a bit and looks at what can go wrong, and some of the better ways for lessening the chances of that happening.
Category: How To
How to do very different things with rope and rope bondage
Forced Orgasms: fantasy and implementation.
Forced orgasms are something I’ve been planning to get into for a while, but only recently did it become well within my abilities to pull off – combined with a little rope bondage, of course.
This post dives deep into the fantasy of that particular kind of play, why people find it hot, and shares a few practical tips on how you can achieve it, should you and your partner be into that sort of thing (Turns out quite a number of people really really are).
Rope Lingerie Ties
Lately I’ve been thinking more about a particular class of rope bondage that I used to think of as “decorative,” but more recently have decided is much, much sexier than that.
So now I’m thinking about and discussing the uses of “Lingerie rope bondage” and I’m going to share a few thoughts, and a couple of my favorite ties from that particular category.
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This great guy named Bruce emailed me not with a question (which happens a lot, these days) but with a handy dandy solution to a very common problem; when you need to practice ties, but you have no model handy, and you’re not quite mobile enough to practice ties on yourself.
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Fast Bondage Tie – And Another Embarrassing Story
One of the requests I’ve had recently was for a fast bondage tie; here’s one to get you started. And oh yes! It comes with one of those fun and slightly embarrassing stories about how I learned some things the hard way.
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Rope Suspension: Applying Systematic Learning
Today I’m going over the results of a rope suspension learning session from a few weeks ago. I have two excellent reasons for documenting this – one of them is for me, and one of them is for you.
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How To Tie A Box Tie For Suspension – Pete Riggs
Lately I’ve been relearning suspension practices from the ground up, due to a long period of spending more time writing than practicing or actually doing suspension. Shortly, Blue and I and a bunch of our local friends are going to be attending a workshop on Japanese suspension; this tutorial video shows the base of the “90% Takate Kote” or box tie that we’re informed we’re going to be using. This isn’t my video; I’m effectively curating it for my own use and for others who are interested in practicing the functional base of the box tie or takate kote. Many thanks to Moco for creating it; he’s done a brilliant job describing the mechanics of it.
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Consensual Non-Consent: How To Play Rape Your Partner
Today I’m discussing consensual non-consent, because that’s been coming up a lot in my relationship of late. This post will contain lots of trigger words and ideas, including rape; actually, lots of that; so if you’ve had a bad experience, it’s likely to be like a punch in the face. Think twice before clicking; for some of you it might not be wise. Continue at your own risk.
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Today I’m discussing a very versatile piece of equipment for practicing BDSM in the home, and which comes a lot of additional compound benefits. I can absolutely promise that this will provide some very good ideas for play or for your own home dungeon; how you use those ideas will be up to you. I do have to say though, that I’m very excited about this piece of equipment; and I’m already having a hell of a lot of fun using it. It’s been a very fun week!
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Rope Bondage The Smart Way Preview: Fun and Games With Crotch Ropes
This post is taken directly from some of the new material in Rope Bondage The Smart Way. There’s quite a lot like it in there, but I chose this particular piece to offer for free because it’s quite a lot of fun, and is useful for all sorts of things (Also, Blue is pretty hot. I’m enjoying showing her off, and I’m proud of her inventiveness).
I wasn’t planning to do a crotch rope tutorial, because honestly they’re pretty easily found on the Internet.
However, due to a recent and very fun occurrence, I’ve decided that in conjunction with the right information, they’re so freaking valuable that I should most definitely not miss them out. That would be a terrible plan. You DEFINITELY deserve the opportunity to enjoy this. If you read to the bottom of the post, you might just learn a very useful new trick.
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