In the last week I had a conversation with my friend Dexter about cotton rope, and whether it’s as good as other kinds of rope. He VERY quickly discovered that I have some strong opinions here.
I frequently come across the perception that cotton rope is pretty much a rope for beginners, and other associated derogatory thoughts like that.
“It’s just what you start with.”
“It’s okay until you can buy something better. “
“It’s the cheapest good bondage rope you can get (and therefore not as valuable as other types).”
I’ve been slightly guilty of that thinking myself, to be fair, especially when I was starting out.
But in the last year, I’ve come to realize that cotton rope is actually an invaluable part of my bondage kit, and I wouldn’t be without it.
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Over the last two-three months there’s been a lot less active rope bondage going on; which is not in itself a bad thing, and there were some very good reasons for it. Sometimes, it’s wiser NOT to do rope bondage and play.
Post play review is a practice I like to do following more involved bits of rope bondage and BDSM play. It helps me remember everything that happened (details often get fuzzy during the high of all the fun) and it also helps me to analyze what went well, and what I can learn to do better next time. They are always ridiculously candid and unpolished, so as to better capture the actual feelings of the moment.
Seriously. I mean it.
Lately, I’ve been working on an additional project, designed to be of greater help than this site is. And it’s finally finished.
This weekend I attended a “rope intensive” run by -Succubus- and Dealande, her rope bottom, and it gave me some whole new insights into partial suspension, which is a topic I’ve been interested in for quite some time now.
True story.
