Category: My Rope Journey

In the last week I had a conversation with my friend Dexter about cotton rope, and whether it’s as good as other kinds of rope. He VERY quickly discovered that I have some strong opinions here.

I frequently come across the perception that cotton rope is pretty much a rope for beginners, and other associated derogatory thoughts like that.

“It’s just what you start with.”

“It’s okay until you can buy something better. “

“It’s the cheapest good bondage rope you can get (and therefore not as valuable as other types).”

I’ve been slightly guilty of that thinking myself, to be fair, especially when I was starting out.

But in the last year, I’ve come to realize that cotton rope is actually an invaluable part of my bondage kit, and I wouldn’t be without it.

Continue reading Cotton Rope And Kinky Dates

Over the last two-three months there’s been a lot less active rope bondage going on; which is not in itself a bad thing, and there were some very good reasons for it. Sometimes, it’s wiser NOT to do rope bondage and play.

Continue reading When You Shouldn’t Do Rope Bondage – or any other kink scene

Post play review is a practice I like to do following more involved bits of rope bondage and BDSM play. It helps me remember everything that happened (details often get fuzzy during the high of all the fun) and it also helps me to analyze what went well, and what I can learn to do better next time. They are always ridiculously candid and unpolished, so as to better capture the actual feelings of the moment.

Want to see how that works?

Continue reading Bondage, Floggers, and Dungyms.

Seriously. I mean it.

Continue reading You Guys Are Awesome

This weekend I attended a “rope intensive” run by -Succubus- and Dealande, her rope bottom, and it gave me some whole new insights into partial suspension, which is a topic I’ve been interested in for quite some time now.

Continue reading Full Suspension Vs Partial Suspension

True story.

Reflecting on the last few years, and the increase in the availability of sex and interactions of the kinky and delightful nature, it’s an inescapable conclusion.

In the last few years, the number of potential and available partners has shot up. I’ve had on again off again relationships and then new relationships entirely, which has been a big factor in how many offers I’ve accepted and what was going on for me at the time, but what really stands out is just how much more available those chances became.

If I was in it purely for the sex, I would be one of the happiest people I know.

And yes. I am putting this down to knowing rope and rope bondage. I’ll detail my reasoning below.

Continue reading Knowing Rope Bondage Increases Your Chances Of Getting Laid