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Combining impact and rope bondage can be super fun. I recently taught a class on this one, which was pretty fun, and surprisingly simple to teach. Experience definitely helps, and I like to simplify topics where I can.

So here are a few of my notes.

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The “Greeting” tie has actually blown my mind. When I first learned of it, I was deceived by how seemingly simple it was. I didn’t see the point. But then, when I actually tried it out… holy shit, this is actually deceptively powerful.

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It’s been a tumultuous few months.

I’ve moved house, which was a lot of work and trips.

I’ve started a new job, and am in that wonderful phase of “oooh, this is new!” and “Oh God, EVERYTHING is new and there’s a fuck ton of learning to do”.

And I’ve begun teaching rope in classes again.

Continue reading Life Update: Also Bondage Foot Porn

Doggy style is a great position – and sometimes you can make it even better by adding rope. That’s where the doggy style tie comes in.

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I legitimately suck at staying consistent with incorporating bondage in winter, but I’m working on it. Hence the post. I’m acknowledging the problem, and making a plan, dammit!

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Here are my notes on the first Tengu tie variation I learned. It’s not a bad tie, fairly simple once you get it down. I’ll probably be experimenting with different variations of it from time to time, because I’m not quite happy with this one yet.

What’s a Tengu? I think it’s a winged demon, sometimes crow or canine. I think it’s probable the tie is called that because it’s more dignified than “chicken wings”, which is what I’ve called similar ties in the past.

We start, of course, with a single column tie on one wrist.

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It’s been awhile since I posted a new tie I like, but I quite enjoy this one. It’s pretty cute, it’s fun to tie, and it gives another option to tie hands behind the back. I only recently learned it, so I’m taking notes and putting it on my website for other people to enjoy. Rookie mistakes included.

This is a variation on a “rifle tie”, or a “teppo shibari” as it’s sometimes known. For most people, this position can be a bit challenging. One of our friends doesn’t like it at all, as she just doesn’t have the flexibility. That said, it’s handy to have options. Sometimes people have shoulder or nerve issues that can get in the way of your more common behind the back ties, so this one can actually be a bit more sustainable. This is not a suspension tie, more a bondage and play tie.

Continue reading Tying Hands Behind The Back; A Variation!

Bondage knots are one of the first things you learn as you start your journey into bondage, kink, and rope bondage in particular. 

And honestly, most people would be surprised at how few bondage knots you’re ever really going to need! 

Continue reading Bondage Knots: The Best Knots for Bondage