Post plague recovery fatigue has definitely impacted on my fun kink activities and lifestyle.
However, there has been one easy bondage activity which has required minimal effort, yet maintained a really hot, intimate vibe during my dates with kink partners.
Bound pats and cuddles.
The Benefits of Bound Pats and Cuddles
Bound pats, my friend, are absolutely delightful. So are bound cuddles.
I have found that a little bit of easy bondage on the forearms and ankles, and then relaxing and enjoying bound cuddles and a Joss Whedon show is an amazing thing. I’m conserving energy and resting, while still enjoying the power dynamic created through having my partner restrained and enjoying my physical affection.
I’m literally lying there, cuddling with and stroking my partner, who purrs and arches and writhes like a kitten. Soft fluffy blankets, some rope, pats and cuddles and a great show = a great night in.
It’s also great for reinforcing that power vibe, that dynamic of the privileged Dom and his bound, subby little partner. For those who are huge physical touch people and really into getting lots of physical touch and affection, this is an excellent activity.
I recommend using bound cuddles as a “main event’ on quieter, low key kink dates. These same pats and cuddles are also a great way to establish a more intimate vibe after a rougher scene, giving lots of physical affection and pats to balance out all the rougher things you might have done.
I think you’ll find that if you have a partner who’s into pet play or animal role play, then adding this activity into your repertoire of fun kinky shenanigans will definitely be appreciated and enjoyed.
How To Do The Rope
The reason why I call it an “easy bondage” activity is pretty simple. All you need is a double column tie on the wrists, and maybe on the ankles. You can use up the tails of your rope by adding another couple of cuffs. You can also link to a collar, or whatever you find pretty and fun.
If you want to add in a bit more low energy fun, then it’s quite enjoyable to add a bluetooth vibrator or two to the mix – I really like the Dolce for this. Again, I’m expending minimal energy, while still getting tons of very enjoyable reactions.
So for all you kinksters and people out there recovering from COVID, or just generally looking for a fun low key activity, I hope you enjoy your bound pats and cuddles.
